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I have, in my history of dating, had men who come back after a long break.
We either dated, they thought of me a long while later and contact me; or I think of them and contact them.
Obviously, things didn't work out but it didn't go so poorly to hate each other. I don't see it coming so at first I think, "wow, nice"....
I generally don't take this as a long, lost love that needed to come back...I don't want to go backwards. But I welcome the nostalgia and the opportunity to make nice with someone from the past.
Do I think it will resolve some karma? Maybe.
Has this ever come back to bite me in the butt? Yes, but just temporarily.
How about you? Do some of your people come back and want to say hi?
The most current guy who came back is actually back for a second time. We met when I was 19, in junior college, and I was friends with a friend of his. I had nothing serious on my mind for any of them. I hurt his friend badly - partially because he knew I liked the friend (but not overmuch) and I also only liked him a bit. They were both nice, we were young and I knew there was a lot of life left before anything serious needed to happen. The boomerang guy just happens to be able to move on and find his next place easier.
I don't actually have any regrets about this - just pondering something the boomerang said; "life is organic" - you can make it happen or let it happen but it's going to happen.
What shall I do with this wisdom?
